Sass and I had one of our major long into the night communication sessions last night. It was both enlightening and productive. One thing I will share from it is this -being completely open and honest is MUCH better - and leaves much less chance for miscommunication or misunderstanding - than the alternative. I was honest and open with Sass about my mostly ego-driven control issues, and that seemed to help the situation, or at least help clarify.
So, in that vein, I decided to be open on my blog - yes, moreso than usual. Hence, this sexual meme!
The pictures included are NOT new, but they haven't appeared in my blog yet. They ARE, however, on my FLICKR. These are pics I took as surprise for Sass. The last one has been cropped because the photos in it were actually hers - RL pics - and therefore not shareable on this blog. Deal.
The questions answered first, then the pics, then the deets. Enjoy!
Sexual Questions: (for RL and/or SL)
What is your sexual orientation or do you not like to label yourself? – I don't typically like to label myself. If forced to, I would say bisexual, since I am attracted to both women and men, in both lives. I don't believe that sexuality can - or should - be as easily categorized as all that, however. Its not a black and white issue, and often shifts with moods and life circumstances.
Name a physical attribute that you find attractive or sexy. – on anyone: Intense, intelligent eyes and a smirking smile. On women: wide, curvy hips, thick thighs and a nice ass. On men: wide shoulders, muscular wide frame, nice ass.
For me, though, its so much less about the physical. You can be the perfect physical specimen, but if you're a horrible human being, or really dumber than a box of hair, my interest won't go beyond a quick appreciative glance.
Are you promiscuous, a prude or in between? – I sort of take offense to the way this question is written. I wouldn't call myself a prude at all, or anything close to one - but I am in a monogamous (with one mutual exception) relationship. Just because I don't fuck around doesn't make me a prude. that said - I had my wild child days in college, and then for a few years after I got married with the open relationship and all, and certainly when I started SL - jeez, who doesn't take advantage of the sexual candy land that is SL when they first get here? But I learned...in both lives..the value of QUALITY and DEPTH over quantity.
What turns you on? – Confidence mixed with just the right about of coyness; intelligence, wit, humor; a creative mind; someone who is unafraid to be passionate and hedonistic and even primal when the mood calls for it - uninhibited.
Are you Dominant or submissive? – I am more Dominant, although just like sexuality, its a grey area - there are no absolutes. I have my switchy moments as well - dependent upon the partner and the situation.
Are you into sexual roleplay? – Roleplay has its place and time, but I always have been and always will be MUCH more interested in REAL HONEST actions and reactions than something put on as part of a role.
Which sexual position is your favorite? – Hmmmmm....probably a woman riding me...wherever she so chooses. There is something so intensely erotic about seeing a woman lose herself in complete pleasurable abandon and let herself be free in the throws of passion as she sits astride my body....
Do you have any fetishes? – Does oral sex count? I suppose I do have a few peccadillos that some would consider fetishes, all revolving around oral sex (giving)....let's just say nothing is off limits....
Have you or would you do porn, amateur or professional? – Movies? Haven't...wait...well....amateur..ok, yeah. Professional?? You mean someone would PAY me to have sex??!! Where do I sign up??
Do you consider yourself sexy? – It depends on my moon honestly. Some days I consider myself sexy and desirable..others...not so much. SL - most days my avi looks hot, but my personality coming through is anything but, so...idk. I leave that to others to decide I suppose.
Are you promiscuous, a prude or in between? – I sort of take offense to the way this question is written. I wouldn't call myself a prude at all, or anything close to one - but I am in a monogamous (with one mutual exception) relationship. Just because I don't fuck around doesn't make me a prude. that said - I had my wild child days in college, and then for a few years after I got married with the open relationship and all, and certainly when I started SL - jeez, who doesn't take advantage of the sexual candy land that is SL when they first get here? But I learned...in both lives..the value of QUALITY and DEPTH over quantity.
What turns you on? – Confidence mixed with just the right about of coyness; intelligence, wit, humor; a creative mind; someone who is unafraid to be passionate and hedonistic and even primal when the mood calls for it - uninhibited.
Are you Dominant or submissive? – I am more Dominant, although just like sexuality, its a grey area - there are no absolutes. I have my switchy moments as well - dependent upon the partner and the situation.
Are you into sexual roleplay? – Roleplay has its place and time, but I always have been and always will be MUCH more interested in REAL HONEST actions and reactions than something put on as part of a role.
Which sexual position is your favorite? – Hmmmmm....probably a woman riding me...wherever she so chooses. There is something so intensely erotic about seeing a woman lose herself in complete pleasurable abandon and let herself be free in the throws of passion as she sits astride my body....
Do you have any fetishes? – Does oral sex count? I suppose I do have a few peccadillos that some would consider fetishes, all revolving around oral sex (giving)....let's just say nothing is off limits....
Have you or would you do porn, amateur or professional? – Movies? Haven't...wait...well....amateur..ok, yeah. Professional?? You mean someone would PAY me to have sex??!! Where do I sign up??
Do you consider yourself sexy? – It depends on my moon honestly. Some days I consider myself sexy and desirable..others...not so much. SL - most days my avi looks hot, but my personality coming through is anything but, so...idk. I leave that to others to decide I suppose.
beard: [TS] Khal Beard - Mocha and Goatee - Brown (tinted)
body: #TheMeshProject (BETA) Deluxe Body(m) w/ hands & feet
skin: 7 Deadly s{K}ins - Judas B5c T2 w/ Judas eyebrow
body hair: L&E all body hair black TMP applier
tattoo: +H+ Half Deer - Fly Away Tattoo
Reckless. - Ion
makeup: ~VFbyLara - BLACK Unisex Long Natural Lashes & liner
accessories -
piercings: :: envi:: Ailin Ear Piercings
:Hebenon Vial: MALE MOD: Against the Stream [Decay] *Mesh*
UNORTHADOX EYEBROW PIERCING Double Left
jewelry: ***Just You Jewels*** DUO I Love You Gen.3 Bracelet
Arkad Baxton AP Friendship Ring with Blue Diamond Heart (modified)
SUGAR - Lock & Key ring (modified)
Tree of Life Ring by Celtic Myst mAgIcK Jewelry
NOMAD // Dreamer Bracelet / Wrist Locket
Eyes: IKON Sovereign Eyes - Forest
My hair by Monso - Dark Brown @ TMD
(in #3) [Gos] Custom Eyewear - SCT
#1:
set:
Builld:Trompe Loeil - Attic Skybox + Surround V1.1
DeathRowDesigns (DRD) VR lounge sofa
*_*C-Outlet*_* Yusuf Table
[we're CLOSED] log candles dark
Pose: [RoLu Poses] He awaits her
#2:
set:
Builld:Trompe Loeil - Attic Skybox + Surround V1.1
(fd) Dreamy Bed - Light (Tintable)
Pose: [RoLu Poses] I think of you
Apple Fall Strung Branch Pendant Light
#3:
set:
Builld:Trompe Loeil - Attic Skybox + Surround V1.1
Pose: *FN* Jerk Off Pose + photographs (cropped)
